By Lexa • April 18, 2017
Let’s face it, modern dating is not getting any sweeter. If there’s anything that bothers ladies besides being cheated on or coping with an immature guy, then it’s definitely false hopes—thus the term “paasa”. But whether a guy suddenly stops communicating (an act called “ghosting”) or comes up with that lame “it’s not you, it’s me” excuse, any woman can spare herself from getting hurt! Let me share with you how I saved myself before saving my dating life.
1. Before anything, condition your mind not to get attached to the guy no matter how much you like him. He should be more interested in you, otherwise, you will appear desperate and needy for initiating.
Here's what you do: Don't try to wonder where you stand and be the first to walk away. It's okay to check on him, but if he seems lifeless in your conversations and he doesn't compromise, then it's time to slowly switch your kilig buttons OFF.
Closing thought: “Do not awaken love until it so desires.” –Songs of Solomon 2:7